Today I welcome guest-blogger Amber Polo. In her fictional
life, Amber writes fun, quirky romances and fantasies, such as FLYING FREE and ROMANCING
REBECCA, but her latest publication is a welcome nonfiction book, RELAXING THE WRITER: GUIDEBOOK TO THE WRITER’S HIGH, and CD and MP3, RELAXING THE WRITER RELAXATION CD: A POWERFUL 20 MINUTE RELAXATION METHOD, which provides specialized, much-needed
relaxation techniques for writers.
Sounds relaxing? Well yes and no.
About 5 years ago, I self-published a relaxation CD,
Relaxation One Breathe at a Time, a
how-to-do-it with a track guaranteed to put you to sleep. I had only a few
copies left and the packaging company was out of business. I decided to
re-record and make a few changes. And, by the way, why not write a book about
relaxation for writers. I imagined a book that would be useful for anyone, but
with special stuff for writers who spend a lot time reading and writing.
Six months later I have a beautiful self-pubbed book, a POD,
CD and MP3 download, plus a 10-minute MP3 download of a hand meditation that
helps you focus and relax without leaving your computer.
Full disclosure. I am a librarian and a yoga teacher. I love
research and I’m good at teaching people to relax. I’ve read widely and studied
under many teachers, so plunging into research sounded like a wonderful break
from writing romance and fantasy. (It did work. I’m now so ready to step back
into my fantasy worlds.)
I decided to include over twenty major areas and hundreds of
suggestions. I checked each topic for new material and narrowed the best ideas
down to the most useful suggestions for writers. I kept it short and light, and
hopefully fun to read.
The hardest section was what I first called “Drugs.” I
thought it was a cute title to write about the legal “drugs” found in your
neighborhood health food store, that manipulate moods would be fun. My editor
really didn’t like that, even with comments like “do your research” and “every
body is different.” I then interviewed an expert in herbal remedies and
alternative practices to be sure I wasn’t going to get anyone one in trouble
and changed the chapter title to “Teas and Tonics.”
Two of My Most Interesting Research Topics –
The Writer’s Fork: Since the hand was one of the book’s
themes. I read up on palmistry and found references in two books to a “writer’s
fork.” I included what little I learned to the book and later found an expert
to interview for more information.
http://relaxingthewriter.blogspot.com/2011/11/does-your-palm-reveal-you-are-writer.html.
Shaking: The practice of shaking has become one of the most
popular chapters. (Remember the Sufi’s – one of which was named Rumi and wrote
a lot of good poetry still read today) Shaking can be both meditative and also
a nice joint loosening exercise to free tension after lots of sitting and
hunching over a computer. Anyone can shake without special equipment, cute
outfits, or joining a club.
I added an appendix of teachers and their books and videos
that I found especially helpful, some who work primarily with writers and other
creatives. I even reviewed some iPhone and iPad apps that might be useful in relaxing
a writer.
Over all, the project was perfect for remembering good
advice and new research. It made me rethink practices I teach in order to
present them simply and safely in print. The downside was that with every
relaxation technique I studied, I felt I should be doing more to relax MYSELF.
I found myself saying, “Writing a book on relaxing is really stressful.”
Relaxing the Writer: Guidebook to the Writer’s High and the
audios aren’t just for writers, but stressed readers and writers will especially
enjoy the tidbits and quotes from authors. Great gifts for your favorite
writer, too. Check them out here: http://www.wellredcoyote2.com/pd-relaxing-the-writer-guidebook-to-the-writer-s-high.cfm and here: http://www.wellredcoyote2.com/pd-relaxing-the-writer-relaxation-cd.cfm.